But Kole’s story took a turn when he met Rebecca, who would become his wife. “When I first started dating Rebecca, I was still using, still messing up,” he says. “She set boundaries with me, told me, ‘You stop, or we’re done.’” That ultimatum was a turning point. It wasn’t an overnight transformation, but slowly, Kole began to change.
“I’ve been sober from alcohol for over a year now,” Kole shares. “I still deal with marijuana, but I’m working on cutting back.” With the support of his family, including his wife, and a new focus on his mental health, Kole is rebuilding his life, one day at a time.
Today, Kole is focused on creating a better future for himself and his family. “I’m just trying to do the right thing now, trying to be better every day,” he says. “I don’t know what the future holds, but I know I can’t go back to where I was.”